Monday, August 20, 2012
Learning Letters Using Rocks
When my daughter was about 18 months, we were at a party with a bunch of kids. One of the kids was only about two years old and he was going the room, pointing at everyone's shirt and identifying each letter. He would yell, "T! O! R!" Everyone was very impressed, including me. I will admit that I filed away that image for later use. I really wanted my daughter to be the "trick pony" at a party someday and be able to impress everyone with her knowledge of letters. I asked the Mom how her little boy already knew all his letters. She laughed and said, "Because I make him do flashcards every day!"
As a new Mom, I didn't know any better. This seemed perfectly normal and wonderful to me. I went out that day and bought a bunch of flashcards and started trying to drill her. The only problem was that she wasn't interested. At all. I waited a few months. She still wasn't interested. I didn't want to force her so I eventually put them away, but I was puzzled. Why didn't she want to learn letters? Isn't that what little kids do?
A few months later, I met a wonderful former Kindergarten teacher, named Susan Case. She explained to me that my thinking was totally wrong. Flashcards weren't the answer. Here are her thoughts:
Young children love to learn by using their five senses and movement. Sensory integration is the ability to take in information through the senses of touch, smell, taste, vision, hearing, and movement, and to combine the resulting perceptions with prior information, memories and knowledge already stored in the brain. In other words, children learn by exploring and discovering using their five senses and movement. You don't need flashcards or expensive products to teach. Of course, flashcards can supplement learning. And it is very important to read books every day possible with your children. But young children may be more interested in the pictures and movable gadgets than focusing on squiggly lines and circles that make up letters. However, there are ways to grab a child’s attention to help them learn the letter sounds and names:
Begin with a child’s name – which is the most important word to them. Help your child form the letters in their name using interesting materials such as beans, pasta, rocks, marbles, buttons, PomPoms, playdough, and pipe cleaners. Always supervise young children when they are using small objects.
As my daughter got older, I took Susan's words to heart. I found these colorful rocks at the Dollar Store and we use them for lots of different things but this is my personal favorite. I love it because I feel like I'm doing my job, helping her learn her letters, and she loves it because it's fun! All I had to do was draw out some letters using circles. Then I gave her the colored rocks and we talked through each letter as she did them, so she knew what letter she'd made. I found that she was more interested in letters that spelled words she liked, such as her own name, Mom, Dad, or her friend's names.
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