Monday, October 22, 2012
The Key to Surviving a Road-Trip with Little Kids: Busy Bags and TV
Twenty four hours in the car with two little kids is a long time. Believe me, we did it last summer. Okay, we didn't do 24 hours straight. Each way was 12 hours, but 12 hours can seem like a lot when you have a four year old asking every two minutes, "Are we getting closer?" I always thought that was a joke that parents told to be funny, but it really does happen. I haven't gotten around to blogging about the logistics of our road trip until now, but with the holiday season coming up, I figure people are going to be making some road trips, so I thought I would share my experiences.
I will say that the trip went remarkably well and was truly better than I would have thought possible. Before we left, I spent hours getting our "busy bags" prepared. This took a lot of time and effort because I had to really think through everything. For example, I originally considered bringing beads so the kids could string necklaces, but then I realized that the kids would likely drop a few beads and then I would have my backside in the air the entire way, searching for missing beads. In in the end, this is what I packed. Each kid had their own backpack filled with several "new" items. I tried to pull out something new about every hour or two, as soon as everyone got restless. They were pretty simple stuff, like new coloring books from the Dollar Store, but just something they hadn't seen before made the trip much better for them. For some other strategies, you can check out this article I wrote for Circle of Moms on Tips for Road-Trip Rookies.
So, here are the contents of our Busy Bags:
We had plenty of new new coloring books. I also packed a Zip-Lock bag for each kid with brand-new crayons.
Next I used note-cards and stickers to make a home-made matching game. I sat next to them and turned the cards over and they picked up a card and then had to try to find the matching card.
This next one was inspired by the "Friendship bracelets" I made a kid. Did you ever make friendship bracelets when you were growing up? Munchkin Girl isn't quite old enough for the real kind, and I had all this extra yarn left-over from our Strawberry Shortcake craft, so I but up dozens of yarn in the same length and tied them together at one end. I brought a safety pin, just like I did with friendship bracelets and I affixed them to the traveling tray. (On a side note, I don't really think these traveling trays were worth the money. They were flimsy and I think I could have done this same thing with a pillow in my daughter's lap)
The next item was a favorite of the trip: a clip-board. I printed out dozens of different coloring pages, all in their favorite characters. I put them all in this sturdy folder, along with lots of colored construction paper. We used the construction paper for lots of different stickers, which are great for keeping them busy. Not only did they use their clip-boards for coloring pages and sticker games, it seemed to come in handy for lots of things. We used them for the coloring books too.
Lastly, we couldn't have made the trip without our DVDs! I'm not a fan of being a hero on a road-trip. If the kids are game for watching a little bit of TV, I say let them!
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